Quarrel or Squabble

What is the major cause of quarrel? I believe it results from misunderstanding or doing what the second person detest or don't like. I've engaged in lots of quarrel within the few years I've spent on the earth but all the time, I feel the second person is guilty and should apologise to me. I think this the main concept that makes a quarrel to last longer than expected. Both parties will think the other person is guilty and should apologise. When it gets to a point that no one can apologise, it turns into a prolonged disagreement.

Most of the times, I feel bad at one period or the other when quarreling with someone I need a giant help from. I will be like; should I apologise and be helped or exercise my ego and not be helped? Most of the times, the answer that comes from  the mind is: give yourself some self respect, don't apologise. And at the end of the day, one end of losing a great opportunity.

I believe we can live a life without quarrels, lets work towards that and feel the free world around us. Help will come from the appropriate places and we will have a complete peace of mind.

Thanks for reading.