Focus - the key to overcome peer pressure

Peer Pressure is an issue that is very rampant in this JET age of ours coz everybody wanna feel among. Overcoming it is super-tedious as it is not easy to see your mates doing something and you are not doing it. Your friend is riding a car coz his parents are rich, you, from a poor background, will be very intimidated to the extent that you will forget your background and what they can afford. This has been the main cause of waywardness in youths. They commit all forms of atrocities just to be part of the league.

The only way to overcome this dreadful pressure is through focus. FOCUS!!! Once you are able to focus on your future, distractions like peer pressure is not gonna pull you down. Focus is just the key coz once you give in to distractions like peer pressure, you will just run out of your lane and start a new race on someone else's lane. You wanna be rich like Bill Gate in just one week. Do you have an idea of how many years it took him to be what he is today? Do you have an idea of what he went through?

Youths, please, let's stay focused.. watching another person's achievement won't take you anywhere. Strive to achieve yours in your own way. When an athlete crosses lanes, he/she is disqualified. Life is a race, run yours on your own lane with your own intellect.

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Change!

Lolz.... This particular word always make me laugh because it's what everybody says but nobody is ready to engineer the change. Although, some people take excuses that it's because they don't have influence or because the change in their life cannot have effect in the general change we are seeking for. Hmmmmn... Is that really right?

I've been forced to conclude that the change we are seeking for can never come to pass. With everybody dodging responsibilities, we cannot reach anywhere. Even the youths of today are not ready to work as future leaders. I have some friends that their aim is to reach the top and cut their share of the national cake as they call it. If youths are thinking in that direction, then what change are you hoping for?

Change is inevitable. That's true if the target populace is small. That's why the little change we are experiencing in Nigeria is at the state level. Each state is involved with various developmental activities. We need to really sit tight and start from the scratch.

This is to our leaders, change is possible with unity. Start from the ward level to the local government level to the state and the federal level gradually. It's a gradual process and not something that can be done with haste. Let's join hands for a better NIGERIA, a better AFRICA and a better WORLD.

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The highest degree of success is attainable

Many of us don't know that success has degree. To succeed in life is not really easy. To be extremely successful is much more harder. The degree of one's success depends on how you implement your skill and your brain quality with the available resources (money esp.). You don't need to read success tips before succeeding as what is working well for Mr. A may not work well for Mr. B.

Life is all about discovering yourself and try not to live your life other people's way. It's destructive. Cos your dad is a successful medical doctor doesn't mean you will be successful if you become a medical doctor. That your dad is a good singer doesn't mean singing is your talent. You need to discover yourself and try to know what works really well for you.

After discovering your talent and skill, you need to implement your brain's ability to carry out a great plan. Being in a future without plan is complete waste of time. You need to plan cos tommorrow is still gonna turn today. You are not the only one with such talent, so, you have to plan on how you wanna be different from the rest and yet bring out the best.

After planning, what next? Money#! Sort for capital, sort for resources, sort for money. It's very essential. Maybe you will have to work off-talent for some years to gather money. Cos without money, talent is nothing!

Let's try as much as possible to work towards our goal in life. Living a fulfilled life is one of the best things that could ever happen to man.

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Good stories should not be interrupted...

This is a quote I got from Mnet Series Zone when they are advertising Mnet Movies Zone. I just felt that if good stories should not be interrupted, then good success should not be interrupted too.

A lot of youths that are meant for greatness interrupt it by doing unnecessary things. They build up characters that are harmful to their future. How can a cultist dream of a good future? It's not possible because the good dream is being interrupted.

You can't dream of a being a medical doctor if all you do is play video games with friends the whole day. Even a lackey doesn't have an interrupted success if he can dream big and work very hard towards it.

All we need as youths is full concentration on our success path to avoid an interrupted sucess.

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The Free Life

It's been long I posted last, I'm sorry about that. I was just trying to put sone things in place.

This blog post is essentially for the youths that wants a free life for themselves. All they ask for is a life free from parents' interference, a life free from elders' advice, a life free from religious stuff. Is that life really free? Most youths abscond from their parents at 18 coz of this so-called free life and many others live double life.

This is not real for crying out loud. The kind of life has costed most youths their future. Most youths are goal-less and don't think about their bright future. I watched a
documentary on Africa Magic where a good number of youths are asked to define the future. ALL of them could not provide the answer. They were just stammering.

This is because most of the youths don't think about the future as it is. All they want is fake life, the one that is free to them. It's time we, youths, stand up against bad future. Live a meaningful life and you will be glad you did.

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